An invitation back to you

ACCESS pleasure, deepen intimacy, cultivate connection

Hi, I’m jordan Gaines (she/her)

I am a sex and relational therapist who believes that Black and queer femmes and gender-expansive folks deserve to experience pleasure and live well. My approach helps clients cultivate an intimate connection with themselves and others. My practice is rooted in the belief that pleasure is a necessary tool for collective liberation. My work exists at the intersection of curiosity, self-acceptance, and radical imagination.

What I offer

individual
therapy

 A space for one-on-one exploration, curiosity, and personal development.

relational therapy

A space for partners, families, and friends to explore relational dynamics together.

group
therapy

A space for collective exploration, shared insight, and mutual growth.

You can access pleasure from right where you are

Therapy with me invites curiosity and vulnerability while safely engaging the unknown. I facilitate a thoughtful collaborative process that honors your autonomy and encourages the fullness of your humanity, meeting you where you are while exploring where you want to go.

“My heart is not peripheral from me.”

— June Jordan

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